Clearing Clutter: An Education in Pieces
This season of Summer passed much more quickly than I expected.
I have spent a lot of time inside this summer. Inside at work, in my house, exploring the inner space of my mind.
One tends to learn a lot when they take the time to listen.
This has been the case for me. After breaking my toe, abandoning "getting back in to dancing" (the activity that caused me to break the toe), taking time off from running (due to the toe fiasco), and going on a solo trip to Sisters, Oregon, I had a lot of time to think and ponder what was really important for me. I even started reading The Desire Map by Danielle LaPorte, and am working on completing the workbook - which has created space for more inner contemplation (more on this soon, when my words form into something more solid and communicable).
But this time of solitude and reflection was interrupted.
I reconnected with an old flame on my way home from Sisters - and that is going great. I went back to work for a week. Then, with a week to prepare and buy a plane ticket (and thank goodness for AirB&B by the way), I had the good fortune to join a good friend on a trip to Italy, where I hiked the hills of El Cinque Terre, and ate bread like nobody's business. (Chocolate croissant and cappuccino for breakfast daily. I know what you're thinking: "But you're gluten-free!" You're right, I am ... In America. In Italy, I ate croissant, pasta, and bread consequence-free. The experience was incredible, and I will never forget the focaccia bread pesto topped pizza in Manarola...).
While away, I heard from my Mother that my Grandma was not faring well, and a friend passed away. By the time I returned home, I spent 24 hours in my city, and while not yet unpacked from my recent trip, grabbed my bag of toiletries and a few clean t-shirts, and headed North with my sister to be with my family for a week through Grandma's transition. Then home for five days, then North again, to spend more time with family, which was quite wonderful and healing. Another week home, and word of my Grandpa's passing.
Another visit with family (again, therapeutic), and my weekends have been spent working on building a relationship, trying to get back into running, dwelling in the past, and thinking about the future.
Somehow, I left self-reflection behind and began exclusively focusing outward again.
Every time I find myself yearning to work on the Desire Map workbook, I put it off until later. But when is "later?"
I know that the practice of reflection and taking time for myself makes me all that much more available to other people who are important in my life. The challenge is actually making time for myself.
I make time for (some) chores, sleep, and occasionally cooking. And I made the promise to myself to schedule time for painting, dancing, writing, singing, all the artistic endeavors that keep me sane, happy, and feeling fulfilled, and have not yet made these activities a priority in my daily life. Heck, they're not even priority in my life on a monthly basis.
I have been slowly removing things from my home - creating space. For some reason, this feels necessary in order to start creating art again. I need a clean slate and the clutter (of things and thoughts) is driving me insane.
Fall cleaning is in full force in this house.
This weekend, the special man and I are headed to the coast - staying in the cabin from my childhood, and I am really looking forward to being away from all the clutter of my daily life to take some time turning inward, and to be present. I am taking my workbook, with the intention of working on those important things again. Time to re-center my focus on the here and now.
How do you get yourself back on-track after de-railing life happenings?What activities keep you centered, happy and feeling whole?
Have a great, heart-full weekend, my friends.